I knew nothing but the very basics about cancer until my cousins daughter was diagnosed and passed away just before her 18th birthday in 2007.
Friends of the family created a Cancer Council Relay for Life team in Staceys honour at Berwick in Victoria, and I went along the first year and walked for an hour and then went home, having no idea of what the 24 hour event entailed. As the years progressed and the family continued to honour Stacey I became more involved in fundraising, set up, and staying at the event overnight. In their fifth and final year (2012) I shaved my head to help boost our fundraising further.
That year I walked in two Relays, the second one at Cranbourne and it was here I joined the Committee the following year for 7 years of which I was the Chairperson between 2016-2018.
The Mighty Ducks team was created to continue raising funds in Staceys name and to give the Femino family an opportunity to be involved without the extra effort of running the team themselves.
In 2015 a cancer diagnosis saved my husbands life. Diagnosed with Stage 4 bowel cancer which had also metastasised to his liver. Whilst waiting for surgery we agreed to an anaesthetic trial and during tests an issue was discovered in his heart requiring a double bypass before the cancer surgery could be performed. It was a long and tough year with many treatments and surgeries but I am happy to report he is still driving me crazy.
During my final year of Relay in 2019 a cancer survivor friend I met at the event the year before, shared with me her vision to create a charity that would support people with cancer in their day to day challenges from a financial but also friendship and support perspective.
Previously all of our families fundraising had been donated to research grants. I felt strongly it was now time for my focus to shift knowing I could contribute to making a real difference to those already facing trauma based on all I had learnt.
It was such a great idea and was the natural next step in my volunteer journey.
I am proud to work closely with the founder as a Director on the CSA board.
Although our charity is relatively new the difference we are already making is evident and I know there are great things ahead in our support for even more cancer patients and their families experiencing the trauma that follows a cancer diagnosis.
I am honoured by the people I meet who let me into their lives at such a horrendous time, and am forever grateful for the friendships that are forged. The harsh reality is that I have lost some of these friends along the way but am privileged to have been part of their journey and continue to celebrate their lives and remember them fondly.